Who vs. Whom

You know those people who always correct usage of who and whom? They’re really annoying, right? Well, now you can be one of those annoying people too! Just check out the following post for another Grammar Tuesday!


Who vs Whom

The best way to explain the difference is to show you a few examples: 

1.  a) Who is calling? b) Whom is calling? 

The correct answer is A. 

2.  a) Who are you taking to the dance? b) Whom are you taking to the dance?

The correct answer is B.

So what’s the deal? How do you know which to use? There’s just one simple thing to remember. This is how I always think about it: 

Who = he/she

Whom = him/her

Here’s what you do: Let’s use the first example: Who is calling? First, you need to answer the question: Who is calling? He is calling. She is calling.

Then, use the above scale. Who = he/she. So the correct word to use is: who. Who is calling?

Or how about example #2: Whom are you taking to the dance? Answer the question: I’m taking him or, I’m taking her.

Whom = him/her. Voila! 

It might sound a bit complicated and confusing, but as long as you know the substitution code, you’ll know which word to use.

Now let’s see if you can figure these three out: 

  • When you go to the concert, who/whom are you taking with you?
  • Who/whom are you talking about?
  • Who/whom is coming to dinner tonight?


I’ll wait while you write down your answers…


Okay! Let’s see how you did:

1: When you go to the concert, whom are you taking with you? I am taking him.

2: Whom are you talking about? I am talking about him.

3: Who is coming to dinner tonight? He is coming.


Leave me any questions in the comments, and I’ll get right back to you!

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